So I have been publishing these blogs for just over a year now. We have seen the adventures in my life prior to that year as well as the shit show of Danny. That said I am not sure if I have made it clear that in every relationship I work to make it better, to change patterns and improve.
For instance, I have read the 4 Languages of Love and realized my languages. The most interesting thing for me is that over the 5 years since I have read it my scores change. I think that is probably a good thing but nonetheless it is good to know. So today I came across something I am going to use with Rex.
I know that the distance is an issue and I think to help see if this is a match and learn about each other this will be a good thing. It is a list of questions that social psychology researcher Arthur Aron of the Interpersonal Relationships Lab at Stony Brook University in New York, published his results in “The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness” in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin (1997). I found this in a Facebook video. I then pulled the questions from this Psychology Today. I find these fascinating.
I think it will be a good thing to FaceTime and discuss. It will definitely lead to us both learning a lot more about each other. Additionally, it will facilitate us both in seeing if the other person is who we want to take the time and effort to get to know. The more you know…
May all your waves be glassy.