Living in DC I met a Psychologist on eHarmony. I should have thought that this might not be a great match to start with but what the heck. He had a Boston Terrier just like me and I was going to check it out. Did you ever get to a date and think this is NOT it? Well my lesson from this one was it is probably not going to improve. Trust your gut. No one wants to hear the laundry list of issues with your ex wife. I think sometimes I was programmed to be too nice. Paying for me to ice skate and rent skates is not enough to really invest more time and energy when you are not feeling it. I think I somehow thought that I should give people more chances. I think that one chance for a connection is enough. So I promised myself that I would listen to my intuition. So check that box lesson learned, (AGAIN).